tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1613068493835754905.post7367953719865138427..comments2024-03-04T15:57:53.156-05:00Comments on Mom Files: Undoing the damage I have causedShelly- Mom Fileshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05577936271946309958noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1613068493835754905.post-38066829845278224732012-02-10T20:44:20.163-05:002012-02-10T20:44:20.163-05:00Omg, i baby the boys too! Chase is three and can&#...Omg, i baby the boys too! Chase is three and can't get himself dressed or undressed either, and many other things, because I do them for him too! LOL!! It's so hard not to do those things, but i guess we do need to give them more independence, huh?!~ Yhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17840261047913991279noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1613068493835754905.post-6139560727559440042012-02-10T12:03:08.812-05:002012-02-10T12:03:08.812-05:00Your son is blessed to have loving parents who nur...Your son is blessed to have loving parents who nurture him, at every cost. I believe it's the way love is to be shown to children, especially at such an early age.<br /><br />But I do understand where you're coming from when you speak of perhaps pampering him too much.Donhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02904024507867487521noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1613068493835754905.post-65837924999180904872012-02-09T19:39:50.010-05:002012-02-09T19:39:50.010-05:00This is my first post to your blog and I'm too...This is my first post to your blog and I'm too embarassed to admit I am that chick that reads and appreciates others post but never finds the time. I was compelled to assure you that you are not the only one. My son Isaiah is the youngest and I was very nervous about him starting the 3 year old program because he was a definitely the child that I did everything for because he was number 4 and I knew he was the last. From my experience, Isaiah was taught from day one- In school-that he was expected to be independent inl and the teachers were prepared for this because I'm sure it's pretty normal adjustment. I won't admit the things I still do for my 5 year old about to be 6, but please know that it borderline and certainly something that he and other 5 year olds could do for themselves.I truly believe in loving your children and mothering is one of those luxuries that will be gone in a blink of an eye. You are building an emotional foundation that my mommy will be there for me. At least that's what I believe:)LaVeda Greennoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1613068493835754905.post-45717552855049956602012-02-08T17:12:57.667-05:002012-02-08T17:12:57.667-05:00I "baby" Presley too, its just easier to...I "baby" Presley too, its just easier to baby your "baby". I get that she is almost 3 and gets away with murder, but she is just to damn cute! <br />I am going to follow your lead and stop doing so much for her as well, this is my wake up call!Lynsiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03693131262025123165noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1613068493835754905.post-38898592779502156562012-02-06T10:18:50.455-05:002012-02-06T10:18:50.455-05:00I have been told that I "baby" my 12 yea...I have been told that I "baby" my 12 year old as in checking up on him to make sure he's doing what he's supposed to. I just call that being a good mom. With my daughter, I have to do everything for her at this point so I'm not sure how that will go later. lol You can't help it sometimes. But I would try to make him more independent before school definitely. Teachers will be very appreciative of that.<br /><br />www.atticgirl.comTheAtticGirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03157669618524485184noreply@blogger.com